Some of us have the tendency of dismissing or rather calling everything that we don't like as trash....If we live in the suburbs we criticise the city and if we live in the city we criticise the suburbs....
Everyone has their view but what turns me off is people trying to push their point of view on others....If you have accepted a way of life don't hurt people who don't approve your view of life.
But i guess it gives some humans sadistic pleasure by putting others down....
If you are well-educated, good for you but don't poke fun at someone who isn't that well-educated. It only goes to show that all your education hasn't taught you basic manners and etiquettes.
My aunt had a favourite quote, "Donkey brags about its own tail," and after coming to the US i've met many people who indulge in this habit. Many wives love to brag about their husbands....while they maybe sitting at home doing nothing but watching television they love to do free P R for their husbands.....Its good that you are proud of your man and we know you are the luckiest wife on earth....but please pity your listeners, they have much better things in life than listening to your "mera pati sabse mahan lecture...." You guys end up portraying an image that you have no personality of your own and that your whole life revolves around your husband....which isn't all that healthy.....
Not taking responsibility....must confess i also exhibit this tendency at times.....you are a victim of circumstance you did something because someonelse suggested it to you or adviced you to do it....It takes a lot of guts to accept your mistakes but once you do it! you are a better person.
Yet another tendency is Jealousy.....which we women experience every single day....how come she lost so much weight? how did she get such a handsome husband? the list is endless....bt at the end of the day it only makes us more bitter.....
There are some of us who have an inferiority complex about something and our way of dealing with it....putting other people down.....like if someone gets a job you don't get you say, "oh....he manipulated the interview panel...." or "the job's not good enough.....even if i got it.....i wouldn't have taken it up!" An ideal case of sour grapes that's it....they argue for the sake of arguing and its better not to waste your energy on these people because you can never win with them!
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