While most of us were partying and welcoming the New Year two girls had a tough time at the Juhu beach where, a gang molested them in the presence of their husbands. Click the link for the whole story.
http://www.hindustantimes.com/PhotoGallery/Photos_StoryPage.aspx?Category=NewYearrevellersfacemolestation
Whenever a case of molestation or eve teasing comes up fingers are raised at the lady in question. People try their best to put down the women by saying they shouldn't have been at Juhu beach late in the night, so what if they were there with thier husbands? they say that this is a lesson for women and they should avoid being late up and dressing provocatively!!!!
But nobody questions the perpeterators of this crime! Remember the Rakhi Sawant - Mika Singh episode. When Mika forciby kissed Rakhi at his birthday party our so-called culture experts questioned Rakhi's dressing sense at the party. By no way am I a Rakhi Sawant fan, but i strongly feel that no matter how provocatively a woman dresses up or no matter how "loose charachter" the woman possess no man has the right to touch her without her permission.
A man should only touch a woman if she permits it. Its a myth that women who dress up provocatively are the only ones who get molested. Every woman has in her life, at some time or the other been eyed upon, teased, groped or molested! I guess the only place were a woman is safe is her own house but some of us arent that lucky either. Recently a Delhi based agency conducted a survey which proved that more than 85 per cent of molesters and rapists are known to their victims.
They say you shouldnt judge a book by its cover, they why judge a woman by her clothes. I think its high time men grow up and let women decide what they should wear and what they shouldn't.
If a man wears a pair of trunks on a beach its okay....in fact its appropriate to the occasion but if a woman wears a swimsuit at a beach she's cheap and calling for trouble.....We are living in the 20th century and yet our brains lie in the stone age when we lived like animals jumping on those who are weak and making them a victim of our sadistic pleasure.
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Even husbands should be considered in this area as after everything rapes, molestations ,etc can and do too occur in marraiges as some foolish males / husbands think women if they are wies are toys at their disposal whenever they want to!! Only very few genuine husbands consider their wives equals and respect their wishes and examples of these GENT-GEMS are present in both our lives by gods grace :)
really a good blog..
you said your views clearly...
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